I'd be pretty damn bitter...

July 28, 2008 13:54 by Lisey

This article has really bugged me for the people who donated money and time to help this family.  At least it wasn't 'forced' help and donation like some would say is needed but still...  What do you think about this?

LAKE CITY, Ga. (AP) -- More than 1,800 people showed up to help ABC's "Extreme Makeover" team demolish a family's decrepit home and replace it with a sparkling, four-bedroom mini-mansion in 2005.

Three years later, the reality TV show's most ambitious project at the time has become the latest victim of the foreclosure crisis.

After the Harper family used the two-story home as collateral for a $450,000 loan, it's set to go to auction on the steps of the Clayton County Courthouse Aug. 5. The couple did not return phone calls Monday, but told WSB-TV they received the loan for a construction business that failed.

The house was built in January 2005, after Atlanta-based Beazer Homes USA and ABC's "Extreme Makeover" demolished their old home and its faulty septic system. Within six days, construction crews and hoards of volunteers had completed work on the largest home that the television program had yet built.

The finished product was a four-bedroom house with decorative rock walls and a three-car garage that towered over ranch and split-level homes in their Clayton County neighborhood. The home's door opened into a lobby that featured four fireplaces, a solarium, a music room and a plush new office.

Materials and labor were donated for the home, which would have cost about $450,000 to build. Beazer Homes' employees and company partners also raised $250,000 in contributions for the family, including scholarships for the couple's three children and a home maintenance fund.

ABC said in a statement that it advises each family to consult a financial planner after they get their new home. "Ultimately, financial matters are personal, and we work to respect the privacy of the families," the network said.

Some of the volunteers who helped build the home were less than thrilled about the family's financial decisions.

"It's aggravating. It just makes you mad. You do that much work, and they just squander it," Lake City Mayor Willie Oswalt, who helped vault a massive beam into place in the Harper's living room, told The Atlanta Journal-Constitution.

Obviously there are many deserving families in need of homes, and the fact this family got their mortgage paid off and and ADDITIONAL $250K for their kids from other hard working individuals really bugs me.  I hope they can't get to the kids education money. 

Also, do you think anyone truly appreciates anything they are 'given' without any work or effort on their part?  I've heard numerous stories of people hitting the lottery only to be broke a few years later.  Anyway, what do you think ?

 


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July 29. 2008 02:59

Cyn

Oftentimes, we hear that the Lord "cursed" Adam that he would have to work by the sweat of his brow all the days of his life. I am not certain that it was a curse. It was possibly a life-saver. Think about the children of wealthy parents who basically think that the world owes them a living. This also applies to the children of welfare parents, who too often think that society owes them a living as well.

Who is "society" or "the world"? It's the middle class. Rand excoriated those who are parasites on others, usually without gratitude or care. She distinguished those who are in desperate need and accept assistance but with gratitude and a willing heart to do what they can. The Lord agrees, I believe, with Rand. His prophets in the past and today state that those who do not work should not eat the food of the laborer. The Church requires those who accept welfare to work as they can. When we see people taking advantage of the Church (and I have), it makes us quite angry because their hearts are not "right".

Those folks who got a $450,000 loan based on the value of the house donated to them need to repay the loan and those who subsidized their aggrandizement. If they don't, karma will catch up to them sooner or later.

Cyn

July 29. 2008 19:41

Firebyrd

This sort of thing is so infuriating. Most people don't seem to appreciate things that are given to them the way they do things they have to work for. I don't know why that is, but in addition to Cyn's example, look at all the college kids who have everything paid for by their parents and just screw around all day and never go to class. Compare that with the adults who go either for the first time or returning after some years away from school...they have to work hard for it, and they appreciate it so much more.

Firebyrd

July 30. 2008 01:41

Cyn

Actually, Firebyrd, I was both! For the first two years of college, which my parents paid for, I screwed around, didn't attend classes, and was generally a "party girl". All I cared about was "BOYS". (I think I was emotionally backward....most people go through that in high school). However, the last two years, something happened and I started to apply myself, graduating with a great GPA and a Master's Degree in Philosophy. From when came the change? I haven't a clue....all I know is that a young person needs guidance from caring parents, or caring adults--whether rich or poor--and if no such care occurs, they fall by the wayside and some make it and some don't. It's such a terrible waste of life.

Cyn

July 30. 2008 12:09

Firebyrd

That's great you turned things around, Cyn! There was a guy in my first student ward that was supposedly wanting to be a doctor, but all he did was stay up all night playing Starcraft and sleep all day. I've always wondered what happened to him, since if he kept that up more than a semester or two, he would have gotten kicked out.

I've fallen into both categories myself. School always came extremely easy to me and I ended up with a full-tuition scholarship with what was only minimal effort for me. I continued to put forth that same kind of minimal effort, which unfortunately only netted me B's and C's in college. Not bad for BYU, but not exactly scholarship-keeping territory. When I came down with fibromyalgia my third year, though, everything really went to pieces. My memory has been seriously affected, so I have to work a lot harder now. I'm an on-again, off-again student these days, and when I am able to go back, I do put forth much more effort and appreciate the learning process a heck of a lot more.

I think part of the natural man is taking for granted things that come to us easily, whether they be talents or material goods or whatever else. It's so easy to squander what we have.

Firebyrd

August 4. 2008 07:13

Cyn

Firebyrd, I totally agree. And for Fidel....take a look at Firebyrd's last paragraph. When have you worked for anything? Ergo, you don't appreciate much of anything either--property rights, property itself. But someone did....and you are taking their effort and their labor as a reward for yourself.

Cyn

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